“What wisdom can you find that is greater than kindness?”
My name is Stephen and I’m a Psychotherapist practicing Integrative Psychotherapy and Existential Analysis in Stepps, Glasgow, Scotland, about 4 miles northeast from the city centre. It is a quiet, residential area with free, on-street parking. I provide a safe, comfortable environment in which to meet, which allows us to focus on the work you want to do, with an assurance of complete privacy and confidentiality.
- Sessions can be done in-person at my practice or from your own home via SKYPE
- You can contact me via the APPOINTMENTS Page
Qualifications: BA (Hons), MA (Psych), MA (Ex. Psych)
I did over six years of psychotherapy training in London, and have two Masters degrees: one in Integrative Psychotherapy and Counselling, and the other in Existential Psychotherapy and Counselling, both degrees earned with Distinction.
“Stephen has a genuine gift of insight that I believe very few people possess. I have had the fortunate opportunity to work with Stephen to address childhood trauma that was stopping me fulfilling my life. I have been able to revisit past experiences and create a new world for myself. His intuition, natural gift and care meant that every stage of therapy was dealt with astuteness, that on many occasions, I found astonishing. How could someone pin point so accurately my issues, and then to offer a solution so quickly and thoughtfully, I found staggering…He is a true asset to his profession.”
~ testimonial by JL
Professional Experience: 22 years
I have 22 years experience as a psychotherapist, with ten years experience in the NHS, working in tertiary care with over twenty patients a week referred to me by GPs, Psychiatrists, Community Mental Health Teams and Social Workers; supporting patients with a wide variety of both serious psychiatric and everyday life difficulties ranging from depression and anxiety, struggles with relationships, the effects of neglect, abuse and trauma in childhood and adulthood, and low self-esteem, to severe and enduring mental health and personality issues and disorders.
I also have several years experience working in the judicial system, with victims of crime, with bereaved people, and with persons both in the community and in residential settings who have mental health needs, substance misuse issues, and homelessness difficulties.
In addition I’m a qualified yoga teacher and trained as a photographer and fine artist and incorporate aspects of these in the service of stress relief, anxiety management, relaxation training, awareness development and the therapeutic use of art, creative media and writing to help patients access and express experiences that are too difficult or painful to put into spoken words. This is especially helpful in allowing both adults and younger people to explore difficult, painful and traumatic experiences in ways that are less distressing than talking.
“Stephen is both an intuitive and genuine person and therapist. He is very skilled in partnering you through an insightful and therapeutic process. This can be challenging but ultimately proved to be a rewarding and helpful road to personal growth and to moving forwards in my life. Thank you Stephen. Highly recommended.”
~ review by Jim M (in-person and SKYPE work)
I grew up in Glasgow, Scotland and have travelled extensively around the world. Most of my learning about human distress and struggle has come from the wide variety of people, cultures, beliefs and situations I have encountered in my life, not least via events and periods of suffering, trauma or adversity that I have personally survived and worked through to a place of healing. Like many of my patients I’ve also lived through the kinds of experiences that can leave us feeling wrecked, overwhelmed or at the end of our rope: bereaved, unloved, alone, shamed, abused, betrayed, exploited, humiliated, furious, depressed, hopeless and worthless. I’ve experienced times where I felt too anxious or uncertain to talk about my experiences, or where I encountered people and services that clearly did not truly understand me or meet me with genuine compassion when I made the effort to reach out in a fragile state, thus compounding my primary struggles with further insult and vulnerability. This is an all-too common experience for many.
“There is a great deal of pain in life and perhaps the only pain that can be avoided is the pain that comes from trying to avoid pain.”
~R. D. Laing
Having someone insightful, genuine and kind to turn to, but who also has clear boundaries and a steadfast focus on your therapeutic aims, can be critical when we are at our most fragile. Indeed, in my opinion it is crucial for anyone seeking therapeutic help – particularly where deep or powerful feelings and experiences are involved – to find a psychotherapist who has survived and healed from their own traumatic experiences and painful life struggles and who is willing to be real with us and shed any pretence or role-playing. Such therapists tend to have a lot of courage to be authentic with their patients: to be unafraid of powerful emotions, powerful truths, and the kinds of frightening or embarassing experiences that accompany trauma and abuse from which others may shy away or respond clinically or academically. Having someone fearless by your side whilst you tackle your own pain is something academic qualifications and clinical interventions alone cannot provide.
Working with Stephen has been a life changing experience for me, my children, and others as a result of my newfound health, awareness, and peace.
I honestly do not know how I could have made it through 2020 & the COVID-19 global crisis without his mentorship, guidance, support, and psycho-education. In a year defined by isolation, separation, illness, pain, and uncertainty, I was able to:
– experience closeness with loved ones and myself
– obtain healing from much trauma & emotional distress
– establish a healthier lifestyle of self care, love, compassion, spirituality and authenticity.
– connect with this inner strength Stephen showed me was always there, and achieve growth professionally as well as personally.
These were all accomplished with Stephen over 4K miles away from me here in South Florida as he guided me from Glasgow, Scotland through video therapy sessions & in-between email supplementary support. I am forever thankful for his psychotherapy services.
~ review by Shanique (Online therapy)
I’ve spent thousands of clinical hours with patients, psychotherapists, counsellors, psychiatrists, psychologists and other professionals in the workplace, and received many years of psychotherapy myself as part of my training requirements, as well as a person in need. I know what has been helpful and what hasn’t, what has engaged me and what has put me off, and this also informs my way of working, which you will find honest, genuine and to the point. Because, in my experience, personal authenticity in the therapeutic relationship is what makes the psychotherapy relationship effective.
“Human life and humanity come into being in genuine encounters. The hope for this hour depends upon the renewal of the immediacy of dialogue among human beings.”
Existential Analysis and Integrative Psychotherapy
My therapeutic orientations are called Existential Analysis and Integrative Psychotherapy. These are experiential, holistic, hermeneutic, phenomenological and somatic approaches to working with personal experience; focussing on the cause and creation of your problems rather than only attempting to eliminate the symptoms. In plain English, when you fully commit to therapy, our work together explores deep and complex levels of experience of which you are likely to have only a slight or partial awareness, helping you change more than just ‘negative thoughts’ or gaining insight. By working with a person’s whole experience and these many different ways of making sense of the world, awareness, new connections and change can take place at deeper levels of experience that include the intrapsychic, affective, cognitive, physiological, behavioural, transpersonal etc.
“I arrived at Stephen towards the end of an unhealthy relationship. Having no previous experience of therapy I think I was a little anxious however Stephen’s welcoming, calm and gentle manner soon put me at ease. He is very easy to talk to and I was able to open up completely and discuss very personal matters without hesitation. Time with Stephen has been a very positive experience – he has taught me not to be so hard on myself and also to listen to my gut. Whatever you feel you need help with in life I genuinely believe Stephen will be able to guide you in the right direction. I cannot thank him enough for his help, support and words of encouragement.“
~ testimonial by C. R. (in-person therapy)
The existential approaches in therapy, for example, have evolved over a hundred or so years from the time of Freud and a form of existential enquiry was adopted by pioneering Glasgow Psychiatrist R.D. Laing and others. They are fundamentally de-stigmatising of patients, and seek to relate to individuals primarily in human terms rather than via their problems, social norms or superficial references and diagnostic labels. As such, whilst I have a good knowledge of psychiatric disorders and diagnoses, I practice by deliberately avoiding pathologising or labelling you in order to understand and connect with your own sense of yourself, your worldview, your personality and your beliefs. The therapeutic relationship is founded on two people being emotionally open and truthful, since understanding how we affect one another’s thoughts, ideas and feelings is central to understanding ourselves and our impact upon others. This is quite different to the therapist playing the role of a ‘blank screen’; a role common to many other therapies.
Existential Analysis as I have formulated and practiced it for over twenty years isn’t a fixed system or set of techniques repeated from an instruction manual, but an individual way of creatively exploring a person’s unique, embodied experience and worldview with an emphasis on truth, intuition and honesty in relationship. Often, for example, we hold our suffering not only in our minds, our illusions and delusions about ourselves, but in our bodies, emotional memories and awareness habits. Finding ways to release emotions held in the body, as tensions, impulses, urges and old needs for example, is a crucial part of recovery for many people.
Integrative Psychotherapy is the name given to work that uses many different therapeutic ideas and methods that are compatible with viewing the whole person as a multi-dimensional Being: emotional, cognitive, spiritual, relational and sitting within a family, workplace, spiritual, social, political and economic context that necessarily influences each of us. All of these contexts can be explored in therapy. Each person is a free, autonomous agent capable of creating new paths and directions in his or her life in a world full of internal and external challenges and obstacles, some of which can be overcome and others only lived with as limitations to our freedom. Change happens by doing things differently, not just by talking, changing thoughts or gaining insight. When our actions, values, beliefs, emotions and words are in harmony then we act more authentically with less inner and outer conflict. Changing our thoughts alone often changes very little.
“If you take responsibility for what you are doing to yourself, how you produce your symptoms, how you produce your illness, how you produce your existence – the very moment you get in touch with yourself – growth begins, integration begins.”
I view my role as being my patient’s best advocate: helping empower motivated people to know themselves better, to take better care of themselves, meet their needs more honestly and effectively, and overcome their internal and external obstacles to a well-lived life. In order to do that well I need to know what my patient truly thinks and feels in response to Self, other and World and all that impacts upon us. In turn, I relate to my patients as equals in a collaborative partnership. I have written a large number of Resource Articles that are an integral part of the psychotherapy I offer, and that save my patients time and money by imparting information that can help them meet their needs more effectively in sessions.
Healing results from coming to terms with our own experienced truth: truth that emerges at different levels of awareness and in different ways beyond just the content of our thoughts, our ideas of self, our narrative or speech. I use a wide range of skills and methods to this end, making the process interesting, engaging, creative and challenging.
My personal philosophy in therapy is driven by the belief that developing personal authenticity is central to change, good mental health and strong relationships, with authenticity forming the foundation of the therapeutic relationship. Personal authenticity is a commitment to being aware of and completely honest with yourself at any given moment; living your values, taking responsibility for your life, expressing yourself with your unique voice, whilst having the skills to protect yourself with effective boundaries, and so meet your needs effectively. That process starts within the honest space created in each session.
I have a genuine interest in helping people overcome their suffering and find their authentic voice. And so my practice is naturally driven by goodwill. I endeavour to help you fully address your needs and concerns with fairness, caring and compassion throughout each session and to finding collaborative solutions with you where they are humanly possible. I invite open dialogue at all times on whether each session is meeting your therapy needs so that I can provide the best possible service to you. However, I’m only human, and should you feel that I have failed to do my best with you and you are unhappy with the quality of support you receive in any psychotherapy session you attend you have 7 days within which to request a free session without challenge or question. Goodwill sessions are never issued in response to dishonest, coercive or disrespectful behaviour of any kind (see Common Sense Clause in Agreement).
COVID-19: just saying ‘No’
In keeping with my belief in transparency, my care for you as my patient, and the cultural and political dimensions of the psychotherapy I practice, I now make my position clear on the COVID-19 situation as a matter of personal conscience and professional ethics:
- I will never discriminate against anyone based on their vaccine status or views.
- You will never be required to wear a hygiene mask when attending my practice unless you choose to wear one.
- Nor will you ever be required to hold or show a ‘vaccine passport’.
Ethically, I have serious concerns about the coercion being used to force people to take the COVID-19 ‘vaccines’ and have encountered enough evidence to convince me beyond a doubt that they currently pose an unacceptably high-risk of injury or death to recipients. I’m also aware of how the COVID-19 corporate narrative is being used to promote other nefarious political and economic agendas that are actually destroying people’s mental and physical health, their relationships, careers, lives and their civil liberties and that these agendas are not in the least bit in humanity’s long-term interests: something you will only appreciate by taking the time to look beyond what we are being told in the corporate media and ‘fact checker’ websites. I’m more than happy to work with anyone’s personal views and beliefs, but I also accept that some people may be upset by my holding this position and may therefore feel more comfortable consulting a practitioner more aligned to the establishment narrative.
Regulation of Psychotherapy in the UK
Unlike medicine, nursing or psychology, psychotherapy and counselling in the UK are professions that are not regulated or licensed by government as they may be in some other countries. A few years ago the UK government declined to assert State control over psychotherapy and counselling. Instead, private trade organisations set themselves up as systems of over-sight and management of professionals who choose to become members. Membership with them is not a legal or professional requirement in the UK, but is purely voluntary. I currently choose not to take out annual membership with any private organisation whilst it remains voluntary. However, if it is important to you that you see a practitioner who is a member of a private trade organisation then please seek help via one of their membership lists, which contain the details of thousands of counsellors and therapists who choose to be affiliated with them. more
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